Weekend getaways… Worth it?

Spoiler alert: yes.

Weekend getaways have some benefits and some drawbacks. We’ll start with the hard part:

• Let’s face it, weekend getaways can be expensive
• It can be tough to find the time
• If you have kids, childcare can pose a problem

Now that’s out of the way, here’s why they’re worth it:

• We’ve already talked about how marriage is your most important relationship. A weekend away together gives you the time and space to check in on your relationship and spark a fresh connection over shared experiences.
• You’ll benefit before you even leave. Studies show that anticipation and planning lead to joy. Plan your getaway together to jumpstart the connection.
• There are lots of little ways you can bring the memories and experiences home with you. Here is a quick guide to help you bring intentionality while away and stay connected when you’re back home.

As of writing this, our last getaway was a little too long ago. We snuck away for 4 beautiful days in Norway. Every morning we were there we got up and out, spending hours wandering the streets of Bergen. We took a fjord tour, explored the Floibanen Funicular for spectacular views of the city and access to a whimsical troll forest. This was the first trip to Scandinavia for both of us. It was special to see and do new things in a new place together.

If your speed is more beach and relax, that’s cool. The important thing is finding your thing to do together.

Conversation starters

1. When you hear “getaway” what do you think about?
2. If you could go anywhere tomorrow, where would you together?
3. Remember together the last time that you went away, and dream together the next time that you’ll go away.